11 Inspirational Quotes about Not Getting What You Want

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Take a look at 11 inspiring quotes about not getting what you want and how to use those moments to build strength and resilience. There are so many motivational self-help books that promise revealing the biggest secrets and techniques about how to get what you want. It’s like a cake recipe. But, sometimes the greatest things happen in life after a period of introspection, self-questioning, and disappointment because you didn’t get what you thought that you wanted. It would be like a paradox that could restore a cosmic balance.

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11 Inspirational Quotes about Not Getting What You Want

Here are powerful quotes about not getting what you want, followed by brief context and ways to use them for resilience and perspective.

Rainer Maria Rilke on Accepting Hardship and Continuing

“Let everything happen to you: beauty and terror. Just keep going. No feeling is final.” — Rainer Maria Rilke.

Disappointment is temporary and it is important to accept hardship and continue because forward motion matters.

Leonard Cohen on Imperfection and Hope

“There is a crack in everything; that’s how the light gets in.” — Leonard Cohen.

When a setback feels like a break, accept the imperfection and reframe flaws as openings for growth and hope.

John Lennon on Life’s Interruptions

“Life is what happens to you while you’re busy making other plans.” — John Lennon.

Life has interruptions and accepting that plans fail, leave space for the meaning that often arrives unplanned.

Maya Angelou on Refusing to be Diminished

“You may not control all the events that happen to you, but you can decide not to be reduced by them.” — Maya Angelou

Despite of not getting what you wanted, you can always refuse to be diminished for reclaiming agency.

Thomas Edison on Experiments that Don’t Work

“I have not failed. I’ve just found 10,000 ways that won’t work.” — Thomas Edison.

Reframe repeated rejection as essential learning in your creative or scientific pursuits because little things work immediately with the first attempt.

Robert Frost on Endurance

“In three words I can sum up everything I’ve learned about life: it goes on.” — Robert Frost

When disappointment feels final, see it from the perspective of endurance that life continues.

Samuel Beckett on Trying Despite Failure

“Ever tried. Ever failed. No matter. Try again. Fail again. Fail better.” — Samuel Beckett

Embracing iterative effort and trying despite failure is essential to keep improving through setbacks.

Carl Jung on Identity Beyond Events

“I am not what happened to me, I am what I choose to become.” — Carl Jung

It is important to separate self-worth from unmet desires or losses and focus on choice on identity beyond events.

Viktor Frankl on Inner Transformation

“When we are no longer able to change a situation, we are challenged to change ourselves.” —Viktor Frankl

For situations and circumstances that can not change and their external outcomes are fixed, an inner response and self-transformation may be the path that leads forward.

Friedrich Nietzsche on Strength through Hardship

“That which does not kill us makes us stronger.” — Friedrich Nietzsche

Surviving difficulties can increase strength through hardship and resilience.

Dalai Lama on Considering this Disappointment as a Stroke of Luck

“Remember that sometimes not getting what you want is a wonderful stroke of luck.” — Dalai Lama

Lastly, everyone may feel disappointment for not getting what they want, but he new may prove that was an unexpected stroke of luck. Wish you all a Happy New Year!